Have a Holly, Jolly, Thoughtful Holiday
It’s the holiday time and I’m caught up in the spirit of the season! As a friendly reminder, I’d like to share some ideas for how to include people with disabilities in your holiday festivities, as they can often be overlooked this time of year.
People with disabilities love being included in activities of the season, because it brings a feeling of acceptance and belonging. Just to keep it real - many long for this connection, whether they have a disability or not.
Since this is the season of goodwill toward all people, here are some things to consider when celebrating with friends, family, and coworkers with disabilities:
- Accessible Venues. The idea of getting dressed up and enjoying a party at a cool venue really excites me. But my excitement is often deflated when I realize the venue does not have an entrance that is wheelchair or scooter accessible. When planning a party, please consider the accessibility of the space. If you can find a location without steps, that would be great. Also, be sure to scout if there’s an accessible restroom. That’s an even bigger plus.
- Virtual Option. If a person cannot attend in person for one reason or another, perhaps a Zoom gathering will do. Zoom and other virtual meeting formats are the norm these days, so why not use it to connect? I think Zoom karaoke might be fun!
- A Space to Chill. Holiday activities can sometimes be overstimulating for people with sensory disabilities. While it can be tough, that doesn’t mean a person doesn’t want to be there. He or she may need a separate room, a space to walk, or a quiet area to chill for a minute.
- Have Lots of Food Options. When it comes to food options, there can be a lot to consider. Some have food allergies, while others need foods of different textures. It’s always nice when there’s an array of options to satisfy everyone’s palate.
These are just a few ideas that come to mind, but please feel free to add to the list! I love bringing awareness to these kinds of things so that friends and family can make positive changes to their holiday plans, and more people can have an enjoyable experience together.
If you’re thinking, “Shari, you blog about this topic every year!”, you’re absolutely right. And I’ll continue to as long as I’m blogger-in-chief. The holidays are not joyous for everyone. People can feel strong emotions of sadness, anxiousness and loneliness, especially for people with disabilities. I’m hopeful that sharing ways to include everyone this time of year will make it better. As you go about this holiday season, try to make it joyous for all by making inclusion a part of your plan. Happy Holidays!
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