I love to watch Holiday movies to get into the holiday spirit. As I mentioned in a post, a few years ago, my all-time favorite is Rudolph The Red Nose Reindeer.
Most all of you know the story of Rudolph, but I’m always fascinated by his friends that he encountered on the Island of Misfit Toys.
Although, by the eye, the toys on the island look to be made “differently”, they were in fact, uniquely made. There was a cowboy on the island who rode an ostrich instead of a horse, a spotted elephant, and my favorite, a Charlie in the Box. Because of their differences, the toys were cast away.
It’s funny that although Rudolph is a child animation movie from years ago, the characters from The Island of Misfit Toys, is still a storyline that is relatable for today. Being of different cultures, having a disability, or being of a different religion or gender group, can cause one to be put in the category of misfit. Unfortunately, society has put a basic standard on a person and, if he or she doesn’t fit it, they’re considered to be abnormal or a “misfit”.
People are quick to judge what they think “normal” is. This is sad but true. I tend to think when others look at me in a negative light, because of my disability, it’s because they can really see my inner glow and want it for themselves. What they don’t know, I was given my glow by the great creator. The world didn’t give it and it can’t be taken away.
I’ve also found it to be true, no matter what state you’re in, there will always be someone who will accept and help you in your time of need.
Just when a misfit toy thought nobody loved it, entered King Moonracer! King Moonracer would scour the town searching for all the toys that had been casted away as misfits. In return, he would take them back to the special island so they could be with their peers and not be alone. I must say, King Moonracer was optimistic, for he knew somewhere there was a child who would love a misfit toy just the way it was but until he could locate one, he gave the unique toy somewhere to chill.
As you probably know when Rudolph came to the realization that he was awesome, even with his red nose, he kept his promise to return to the island and rescue his misfit friends, so he could place them with kids who would love them.
Often being a misfit is difficult and lonely. Everyone wants to be loved and fit in somewhere. So, with this story, let me give you a little of Shari’s wisdom, learn how to be ok with yourself first. It doesn’t matter if you’re a misfit, when you love yourself, it shows, and it feels good. Also, being ok with yourself will draw people to you.
You asked how do I know? It’s because I’m a misfit who’s a boatload of fun. Have you ever been to a party with me?
To my misfit community, keep it moving and know you are great. Life will eventually work out. Differences make the world go round so take your stand and be awesome!
I love the stories. Merry Christmas Shari.
Thanks Gilbert!
Merry Christmas to you too!
I never looked at Rudolph that way (I really like it too:). I’m looking forward to seeing it again later this week, curling up on the couch with my blanket and cocoa, and putting your spin on it. The part about your glow coming from the creator made me smile because, it’s a light that never dims. Shine on! Thank you for sharing Shari and from one misfit to another, MERRY CHRISTMAS!
Merry Christmas to you too Monae! Love ya girly!
Shari– This is a great commentary on an old classic. The Island of Misfit Toys was actually a beautiful place, where toys that appeared to be flawed could live together in harmony. I believe that it’s true, differences can bring harmony–even make sweet music. Nothing is ideal. None of the toys. None of the kids. But there is a way for all of them to work together. I believe that is the message that God wanted us to receive. We have to find a way by embracing everyone and everything that we each bring. God doesn’t make mistakes. And He definitely doesn’t make misfits.
Have a wonderful holiday season, my friend. Keep reminding us to live our best lives, authentically. You sure are, and seeing you gives me life!
Tracy,
Thanks for your support and, encouraging words.
Happy Holidays
I always loved the island of misfits, too. It’s funny how many of us identify as a misfit in one way or another. Now I know that the misfits are usually the most interesting people—and much less judgmental than ‘normal’ folks.
Merry Christmas, Shari!
Shari, although I am a bit delayed in reading this column, I’m so glad I did. It’s definitely worth sharing with others.
I love Margie’s comments–she is spot on! And Tracy is right–your reminder to be authentic is the BEST advice.
Happy New Year to all!
Janice
Thanks Janice!
Happy New Year!